In The Truman Show, there was a theme of relationships. For the director and the people in Truman’s world, all the relationships lie on the I-it side of the spectrum. For Truman, on the other hand, he was living his normal life, so some of his relationships lay on the I-you side of the spectrum. This theme lies at the bottom of the whole premise. The difference between the relationships is what makes this world fake to those viewing it, but real to Truman.
The most obvious relationships to analyze or those of the extras. The extras are just standing by. They don’t see Truman as a person, they see him as a character of a television show intended to entertain the viewers. This was evident in the characters of Meryl and Marlon. They constantly lie to him because the audience wants to see how he reacts to them. If they had really seen him as a full person, they would not have toyed with him in the way that they did. In one case, that of Sylvia, Truman did seem to have a personal connection. The reason he was so infatuated with this person was that she was able to see him as a person (I-you relationship) just as he saw in her. The short relationship he had with her was real; everyone else saw him as an object. The real relationship these two had is what drives Truman to find more of them, and ultimately to leave SeaHaven.
One of the most interesting cases to examine the relationship is that of the director, Christoff. He was the mind behind the show controlling every aspect of Truman’s life. Whenever any problem arose he was there to fix it, and he orchestrated all of Truman’s major life events. He centered the whole show around trying to be able to see Truman as a complete human being, but what he didn’t realize is that he was unable to see Truman as a person. Though he was able to control everything Truman encountered, he wasn’t able to control Truman’s mind. The fear of water that he had fostered turned out not to be enough to keep him on the island. Christoff was only able to see Truman as a compilation of responses as opposed to a true human being. The climax of this relationship occurred when Truman was trying to escape his world by boat, and Christoff created a violent storm to attempt to stop Truman. This storm, though, was a hazard to Truman’s health. However, Truman lived and Christoff tried to persuade Truman to stay in the dome by claiming that his life there was better than the outside world, but Truman didn’t want that. He wanted to have real relationships with others both good and bad as opposed to the one way relationships he had in his life up until this point.
Lastly, Truman’s relationships through Buber are very interesting. Under the dome he was a very nice person who tried to see everyone as their full persons. However, they all sort of lacked a spark for him. That spark was a returned true care for the other person. The one person he had that spark with was Sylvia, and this relationship is what drove Truman to find out the truth about SeaHaven. Thus, Buber’s I-you and I-it relationships are what drove The Truman Show to its climax.
Jack Skaggs

